| 2/21/2010 - Do Trials Make You Bitter or Better? |
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by Dr. Steven Riser INTRODUCTION:I regularly hear people say, “I’ve got problems.” And I say, “What else is new, join the club.” “Yes,” they tell me, “but you don’t have problems like I do.” And then they pour out their particular difficulties about their marriage, in-laws, children, job, lack of love, inferiorities, unfaithfulness, frustrations, failures, addictions and worries in general. My problem is I’ve got too many problems. I’ve got problems I haven’t even used yet. Many echo the complaint of David when he said, My problems go from bad to worse. Neither I nor can anyone else can supply you with an easy 1-2-3 formula that effortlessly solves all your problems. But I can help you view your problems from a Biblical perspective. EXPLANATION:Where do we begin? The reality is that: trials and problems are universal. You might think that a perfectly innocent man in an ideal environment would have no problems, but you would be wrong. Adam had problems with himself, his wife & his God. His selfish rebellious will posed a serious problem. His problem with the devil compounded his other problems. He struggled with his lack of responsibility in blaming others. This led to problems of personal rejection, loss, loneliness, working in a thorn infested ground and seeing his wife suffer in child birth. Even Adam, the 1st man, had many personal problems. We’re forced to agree with Job: “Man was born to trouble as the sparks fly upward.” Problems will be with us from the day we’re born, till the day we die. In this, we’re all the same. Where we differ is in: 1) how we understand them and 2) how we handle them. One term the Bible uses for a problem is a trial. A trial is not without a purpose. It involves subjecting one to a test to determine one’s virtue, faith, patience or character. There are many types of trials that we face. For example:
How do most people naturally react to trials? They resent them, grieve over them, avoid them or at best stoically endure them. A person shows his true character only when he is exposed to trials. Circumstances do not cause character, circumstances reveal character. Why is this true?The reason they reveal character is that: how we respond in trials reveals our true values. How do you react to “trials” or frustrating circumstances? I. FACE TRIALS WITH JOY-(that is, with a positive attitude) - James 1:2; Heb.5:7-10;Mt.4:1-11James 1:2 says, “Consider it pure JOY, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds” In 2 Tim. 3:12, Paul also taught us to expect persecution and suffering. He said, “In fact, everyone who wants to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted,” More than not being surprised, we should come to expect trials and tests as an essential part of the Christian life. James refers to many kinds of trials; they are diverse and manifold. Not only should we expect trials, but James counsels us to count them all joy when we’re engulfed by them. How can we face trials with joy? This seems to be so unnatural and against our nature. At first glance, it seems a contradiction in terms. Who is joyful in trials? The world may encourage us to be calm and composed in the midst of trials but… only Christianity prescribes a joyful response to what may be viewed as a negative situation. We’re not only to be joyful in trials but Paul says we’re to: “give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ.” (ITh.5:18) James exhorts us to do what God desires. What does God desire? For us to do His will. Why? It’s always in our best interests! There’s never a conflict between what pleases God and what is in our best interests. How did the Apostles react in Acts 5:41 when they suffered for Christ before the Sanhedrin? James 1:2 teaches the importance of having the proper attitude with regards to trials. In large measure our attitude determines our reaction and we’re exhorted by Paul to develop the attitude of Christ. (Phil.2:5) If we have the wrong attitude toward trials, we may forfeit learning all the extremely valuable life lessons that God has intended for our good. II. FACE TRIALS WITH PATIENCE – (Willingness to Suffer) - James 1:3-4“Because you know that the testing of your faith develops patience or perseverance. Persev- erance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. James 1:3-4 explains in part God’s purpose in permitting trials to come into our lives. The best commentary on our text is Romans 8:28-29a: “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the likeness of his Son” God will use any and every circumstance to conform us more to the image of Christ if we respond the way God wants us to. All things work for good only to those who love God. Jesus said the test for loving God was obedience to His commandments. In John 14: 21, As God’s children, we are like diamonds in the rough (some rougher than others). As God uses his tools of frustrating trials and irritating circumstances, one quality He’s seeking to work in us is patient endurance or perseverance which enables us “to keep on keeping on.” In Jas. 5:11 we are given Job as an example of what the Apostle is teaching us in Jas. 1:3-4. “As you know, we consider blessed those who have persevered. You have heard of Job's perseverance and have seen what the Lord finally brought about. The Lord is full of compassion and mercy.” Job was patient and trusted God in his sorrow and eventually ended up more blessed than ever. God knows what’s best and wants what’s best for us, but…Are we willing to receive His best? “Christians are like tea, it takes a lot of hot water to bring out the true strength and flavor.” Just as gold is put into a crucible and passed through a fire, so our faith is tested by trials. 1 Peter 1:7 says, “These [trials] have come so that your faith-of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire-may be proved genuine and may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed.” One day a tourist was watching a farmer build a sturdy stone wall before the coming blustery Maine winter. After a few moments of quiet observation the visitor commented on the sturdy dimensions: (4’ high + 5’ wide). When asked the reason for this, the farmer said, No doubt the industrious fence builder had “tongue in cheek” when he spoke of his monstrous wall being disturbed by the wind; yet there’s a good lesson to be drawn from his comment. God is looking for Christians who, when they are blown over by the winds of adversity become taller than they were before…Are you such a person? God works patience in us in many ways. He can use: 1) our health, 2) other people, 3) lack of finances, 4) adverse circumstances, even 5) unanswered prayer to help develop patience in our lives. All our trials borne with patience will eventually turn into blessings. James 5:7-8 contains another example of patience: “Be patient… until the Lord's coming. See how the farmer waits for the land to yield its valuable crop & how patient he is for the autumn & spring rains. You too, be patient & stand firm, because the Lord's coming is near.” Try this experiment the next time you experience a trial: Expect it, Thank God for it, Identify the source of the trial, Be teachable and ask: what quality does God wish to work in my character and how can this trial conform me more to the character and conduct of Christ? III. FACE TRIALS WITH FAITH AND PRAYER – (Confidence and Commitment) - James 1:6-7If we want wisdom we need to ask God in faith which is essential for answered prayer. How would you feel if your children didn’t believe or trust in you? Just as we want our children to trust us, God wants us to trust in Him and faith involves confidence in the truthfulness and reliability of God’s Word. If we have faith, we seek to act in a way consistent with what God’s Word teaches. We take God at His Word and we act accordingly! “Without faith it’s impossible to please God” (Heb.11:6a) The most important part of knowing God’s will is our willingness, in advance, to do it. (Jn. 7:17) Prayer isn’t real or effective unless it’s a genuine expression of faith. When we ask in faith for wisdom, we should expect an answer. IV. FACE TRIALS WITH GOD’S WISDOM – (Make Good Decisions) - James 1:5How can we rejoice in our trials and thank God in all our circumstances? Clearly, we need God’s wisdom. We need to see our trials from God’s point of view. James 1:5 teaches that it’s important to face trials with godly wisdom. Without wisdom we can’t respond the way God wants us to. At the very heart of Christian experience is wisdom which involves understanding & acting according to God’s will. Are you wise? If so, how would you know? Here’s a simple test: A wise person does: 1) God’s will, 2) God’s way for 3) God’s glory. Understanding involves seeing life from God’s point of view. Wisdom is skill in living. It involves knowing and responding to life’s situations from God’s perspective. Wisdom is the ability to make good decisions. Matthew Henry said, “We should not pray so much for the removal of an affliction as for wisdom from God to make right use of it.” FIVE OBSERVATIONS REGARDING OUR TRIALS OR PROBLEMS:1. Expect Problems: Problems should never surprise us; they’re certain, constant, continuing. Don’t make the mistake of thinking: everything will be rosy and being shocked when it isn’t. That’s simply being unrealistic. Become a tough-minded optimist say, “Sure we’re going to have problems, But with God’s help we’re going to overcome and benefit from them.” Difficulties are inevitable & inescapable but they’re also necessary, desirable & important. 2. Value Problems: Problems are more valuable to our personal spiritual development than we can imagine. The trial of our faith is more precious than gold that perishes. Christ was sinless but He certainly had His share of problems, didn’t He? It’s not what the problem does to you, but what you do with the problem that counts. No one has achieved in any field without facing and overcoming many difficult problems. Problems are valuable because they help us to become more like Christ in character and conduct. 3. Understand Problems: If you can’t handle your problems with God’s help you wouldn’t have them because God promised not to give you more than you could bear. You can’t say, “This is too much for me to handle.” God promises that He will not allow us to be tempted beyond our strength. (I Cor.10:13) God knows our capacity. His grace will be sufficient. God has given you a mind to think and a will to choose what your attitude and action will be. God’s says, “Here’s an opportunity for you. You can handle it, if you allow me to help you.” 4. Responsibility for Problems: We’re responsible for the way we respond to our problems. Paul says: Gal. 6:5:“for each one should carry his own load.” In a storm, a person leans into the wind. You can never remain upright unless you do so. The same is true with problems. If you lean away from them they will knock you down. If God doesn’t provide a way out of your problems, He will provide a way through them. A crooked life, like a crooked river, is a life that follows the path of least resistance. 5. Conquer Problems: What practical strategy can you use to conquer a problem?
Christians should react to trials in the way that God would have us react. We should look at them from God’s point of view. Here’s how J.B. Philips paraphrases James 1:2-4:
CONCLUDING CHALLENGE:My concluding challenge to each of you is to: 1. Face your trials with the proper biblical qualities and practices: 2. Develop a Biblical understanding of your problems: 1) Expect, 2) Value, 3) Understand, 4) Be Responsible For Your Response and 5) with God’s Help: Conquer Your Problems by: 3. Applying the following Biblical principles: Text: James 1:2-7: 2. Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3. because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. 4. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. 5. If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him. 6. But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. 7. That man should not think he will receive anything from the Lord. |